No school today means #UnpluggedPlay for our household. We usually do arts and crafts but I really wanted my kids to know how to cook. We started off with something easy, like a fruit smoothie. #BrightBear got her cooking for kids book from https://www.dk.com/us/ . We normally freeze bananas and other fruits to prolong the life and for emergency cooking sessions like this one 👍🏻
1 ripe or frozen banana 🍌
700g of strawberries 🍓
1 tbsp honey 🍯
3/4 cup milk 🥛
1/2 cup yogurt
1.) Chop banana and strawberries into smaller pieces for faster processing
2.) Put in chopped fruits inside the blender along with the other ingredients
3.) Blend until you hit the smoothie consistency that you like 😊 and…. done! 😊👍🏻 Easiest way to trick your kids into drinking something healthy – have them make it and make it into a juice 👌🏻
It’s been awhile since I last wrote about anything. It’s also the first time that I’m trying out this method of blogging-via-mobile. I’ve always loved the touchy-feel of keyboard-typing, but… I’m trying to embrace technology and not be so old-fashioned.
So… what has happened so far…. Baby Bear is already 6 1/2 and she is simply the brightest kid ever (bias aside) 😊 I now call her #BrightBear
Baby Gummy Bear is turning 3 soon! Seriously, time please stop! I want my baby to be my baby forever. He is one sweet little boy 😊 He brings joy to everyone who sees him. I now fondly refer to him as #BrightGummy
With these 2 kids, I still consider myself as a #StartUpMom 😊 Just when you think you know all there is you need to know about your kids and they throw you a curve ball and change things up a bit. I learn so much about being a mom to these two, I learn so much about these 2 wonderful little people and I am learning so much about myself.
#StartUpWife – Yup, still the same. As we go through the different stages and phases of life, we also go through so many challenges, trials, joys and tribulations. Always something new, always learning to love and not let the big things (or the little things) get in the way of US. #MrBright 💙 #MrsBright
#StartUpBusiness – Thought I’d be advancing as time goes by but then because of the nature of our business wherein we bring in different brands, there’s always something on the horizon. We go through the different product life cycle stage for each of our brands. The challenge is always there – be it with a new brand we just bought in, or an old brand that needs updates or a fresh story. The business will always be a challenge but it is not that far from what I used to do in my corporate life before and is actually a life that I’ve missed anf it is work that I love doing. Cliche as it may sound, it’s never work if it’s doing something you love ❤️ BRIGHTBRANDS.ph
Last but not the least, #StartUpSelf 🌟 I don’t think I could ever be the best version of a wife, mom or mompreneur…
Not unless I have myself thoroughly figured out. Not unless I know how to fully embrace my strengths, know my limitations, handle my weaknesses and know when to say yes to the right opportunity and not just yes to all things that come my way, just because! I’m learning to choose my obligations so that I don’t stretch myself too thinly and can have time to do the things and be with the people that matter.
The Self is something that I’ve been focusing on a lot now since that’s also the most where I’ve been struggling with. As mentioned above, I do believe that the self has to be worked on first above anything else. Like all my projects, I break this down into compartments. In totality, I’ve reflected on my whole self and it boils down to these important tabs – Personal, Health, Relationships, Business and Philanthropy 😊 I got this idea to work on these 5 aspects from Shark Tank Leader and wise guru – https://daymondjohn.com/ I love what he said and I’ve tried to chart my life by these 5 points. I start the month by planning everything based on these and I feel a sense of relief. First off, it’s a good guide – the important things are prioritized and you know that anything that crops up that can’t be categorized is an automatic deviation to the plan. Quite brilliant, if I might say 😊 Hopefully, I can blog some more about this next time. Would love to have a chance to share this since it’s really helped streamline my life, allowed me to live life simply and stay focused. Eye on the prize! 🏅 Blogging again is part of improving my personal self and I really hope I can write more next time. Starting up again… c’est la vie! Wish me luck! ciao!
Hello 6 months! Well, Gummy Bear is 7 months already and has a voracious appetite for solid foods. My only problem is he is a bit of a picky eater. So far he doesn’t like bland cooked baby food so we always have to put in a little baby jar food mixed in just so that there is a bit of taste. Any body else with this kind of problem? I didn’t have any issues before with Baby Bear as she willingly gobbled up the cooked baby food.
I have had this book for awhile now on my bookshelf but I was waiting for the 6 month mark to really read this book. Wanted to time it as we start Food Training 101 for Gummy Bear.
I highly recommend this book. This is a book, not just for picky eaters but everyone who eats in general. Here are the highlights of the book:
I learned a lot from this book but what I want to harp on is MY biggest takeaway from this book. We have all been hearing about GRIT and how it is the key to raising good kids. Forming GRIT is something that is not easy to do. The book How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character laments the fact that these days, kids have a strong sense of entitlement. We live in a very fast-paced world and since everything is within reach or literally at tip of our fingers, we are so used to having and getting everything that we want in just a snap. Our kids also have it lucky because our generation of parenting is quite different from the way our parents used to do it before. We try to fill in the gaps of our parents who didn’t spend that much time with us since they were so busy working hard in order for us to have the luxurious life we have right now so we can afford more time to spend with our kids and have more money to splurge on them. In the book, How Children Succeed, Paul Tough states that the success of a kid has to do more with qualities that have something to do with developing skills like patience, perseverance, curiosity, self-control, and optimism. Going back to the book French Kids Eat Everything, kids are trained to sit through long dinners with adult conversations. We all know the adage that goes: a family that eats together, stays together. We may eat together but sometimes it’s either we are in a rush, looking at our cellphones, or nagging the kids to hurry up and eat. Dinner time should be a pleasant experience, a long affair (hello 3 course meals), and a time to bond over food and conversation. It also gives us the chance to bond together with the family and teach “life lessons”.
How does one teach life lessons over dinner:
Scenario: We are actually guilty of leaving Baby Bear to eat with the nanny because we feel that she eats more when we are not there. Typical girl, she loves chatting while eating – and when she chats, food is stuck on her mouth for a long time (read: babad) and it takes a longer time to swallow.
– Don’t talk when your mouth is full!
– The value of being patient and waiting for the all of the members to finish eating – While the essence of dinner time should be talking and catching up, this hasn’t worked for us since dinner becomes way longer and we are actually the ones without the patience to sit through it. 😦 I am learning to stop saying “hurry up and finish eating” and now, spend more time enjoying dessert and teaching stuff to Baby Bear over dinner.
– No one left behind and no gadgets should be used during the course of dinner – – The few times that Baby Bear finishes eating before we do, she is itching to go down at once to play, so this is quite a daunting task for me now. Especially when we are outside and the orders haven’t arrived yet, the default before was to let her play the iPad. We are training not just Baby Bear, but also ourselves to sit through our restaurant dinners without any distractions. We don’t allow iPhones or iPads during meals. We used to allow other distractions such as coloring, reading a book, stickers, toys, etc. but it was just the same as the iPad.We just substituted the distraction with another distraction, which just takes away the fun and interaction that supposedly came with dinner time as being the time to catch up on what is going on in each others’ lives. Consistent with another book that I read, Bringing Up Bebe, making them sit-through these dinners harps on the importance of letting kids sit down and develop patience by learning how to wait. I make Baby Bear sit through our dinners, let her listen to our work or household discussions. She doesn’t need to actively participate but she has to sit through them. In the long run, kids are supposed to learn from these adult conversations. This is where they get a chance to pick up “life lessons”. They can also simply be quiet and bored with the adult conversation. When they are bored they tend to daydream which sparks the creativity wheel in their brains.
– In line with our no gadgets policy, we have a strict no gadgets rule during weekdays. While Baby Bear constantly whines “unfair” because all her cousins can iPad anytime, we want her to have lots of free time to read books, play with her toys, spend time with Gummy Bear, go down to the park and play with her friends. She can also opt for alone time where she chooses what she wants to do by herself. The French believe that it is important that kids can play alone.
I think the French are really on to something when it comes to parenting their kids. Theirs may not be the perfect system but it is a good support to their belief in the importance of raising foodies and good children. To them, raising good kids start with teaching them to have good table manners. Having good table manners is a practice of good habits. Not only that, perfecting the art of eating and the habit of eating together, allows you to spend more time with your family members to bond over stories and life lessons. At the end of the day, it’s all about quality family time… it doesn’t hurt if our tummies are also happily satisfied in the process. Happy tummy, happy life! 🙂
I have encountered a lot of how-to-tidy-up posts over the internet but none compares to the OCness and meticulous study that went behind this best-selling book. Japanese cleaning consultant (yes, there is such a thing), Marie Kondo, developed the KonMari Method of tidying up.
The key points stated in the book is already enough to spark a complete paradigm shift about the way we currently tidy up at our place. I would still recommend reading the whole book though because it is an easy read. You would probably finish it in just half a day, complete with some household distractions. It is a treasure trove of tips for decluttering and maintaining the order at home. Lastly, it is an insightful message of how our personal space affects our mindset, persona, positive vibes, inner peace and happiness.
What I’ve been doing wrong:
1.) Tidy a little a day and you’ll be tidying forever – Tidying up by piece meal. I schedule my tidying up duties when I have small pockets of free time. As there is no set schedule as to when I should do it, I sometimes end up not finishing the task, forgetting to follow through and procrastinating.
2.) Storage experts are hoarders – Don’t buy storage containers until you know for sure what you plan to put in them. Make sure that you pile every little thing into one group, discard and know where each remaining item should go to. Don’t just buy tons of storage containers only to end up just shooting everything back inside. Garbage in, garbage out.
3.) Keeping things because “I might need them next time” – If you never used it in the first place, then you never will.
In a nutshell:
1.) The art of discarding is the first step. It focuses on a category-by-category vs. room-by-room system. You are supposed to clean up in this order – clothes, books, papers, komono (miscellaneous items), and photos.
2.) Discarding is not about letting go of the things that we don’t need or haven’t used in awhile. It’s about letting go of the things that do not spark joy anymore. Leave behind only those things that bring joyful memories.
3.) Purging must be done in one shot. It shouldn’t be done bit by bit or when you have free time. It should be deemed as a major dramatic affair.
4.) Preventing rebounding is easy to do if you have a place for everything.
5.) Put your house in order and everything in your life will fall right into place.
I would totally recommend this book and I can’t wait for the other books in the next installment. I hope that she can tackle organization and tidying up for those families who have kids. I think people with kids have a tougher challenge when it comes to tidying up. Don’t even get me started on our toy storage boxes!!! For now, I am just glad that we have ONLY 2 seasons to deal with! =P
Chanced upon this video uploaded by The Logical Indian. This video is timely for me now as I evaluate which big school I should send my daughter to. For her preschool, I also thought long and hard about the merits of traditional vs. progressive. Long story short, I tried Progressive and I liked it! This is a big thing considering I’m a trad girl by heart.
She goes to a Montessori school now and this video exemplifies what Maria Montessori espouses that children learn via imitation and example. Let them do it on their own, give them their own AHA moment so that they can discover for themselves what a joy it is to explore. Let us raise independent thinkers! This also hits home that we should always set good examples for our kids. How they live life will largely be based on how they see us live ours.
Here’s the insightful video. Have a great week ahead!
The hubby and I are summer birthday celebrants and so is Baby Bear. The advantage of having a summer birthday is being able to exchange a party for an awesome trip. Since Baby Bear is still small and has clamored for a school birthday celebration, I decided to check with the school if this was okay. I didn’t feel right about celebrating a summer birthday way, way, way in advance since this might have some “spoiling” implications. Apparently, this was the norm for smaller kids! Teacher advised me to go ahead with the early celebration because as a kid, it really means a lot when their friends celebrate their birthday with them.
Baby Bear goes to a Montessori school. The rules there are very simple – birthdays aren’t as bonggacious as how other schools do it. No decor, no frills and fuss, just show up for your kids’ birthday celebration, bring HOME MADE food for the class (no commercial food or take-outs allowed), and loot bags are optional.
Baby Bear chose a princess-themed party since she was on a Disney princess craze. We had our favorite baker – @regaustria make her simple princess cake and cupcakes for the classmates to bring home.
When we arrived in school, they started the birthday ritual promptly. Going through this beautiful birthday ritual made me understand why my introverted Baby Bear who absolutely hates parties was clamoring for one. The celebration was so heartwarming. It started out with the kids welcoming the parents. The three of us were placed in the hot seat and teacher asked me and the hubby to say something about how Baby Bear was as a baby. I told the class how Baby Bear used to be so quiet and cried a lot as a toddler, but ever since she joined this class, she has become such a happy and NOISY baby. I told the class she was having fun with her friends and can’t wait to go to school everyday just to see all of them.
Then, we moved on to the cake. All the kids had to fall in line first, greet the celebrant personally a Happy Birthday, give their gifts (if they have any), shake the hand of the celebrant and move on to the cake table.
They all sang happy birthday to Baby Bear… and it was the first time Baby Bear wanted to blow out the candles! She has always shied away from candle-blowing since she gets conscious when all eyes zoom in on her. She really does love her school and is more at home with them, happily blowing out the candle and being such a good hostess. After that, we had a few class pictures and moved on to snack time.
Again, they fell in line, went to the tables and they all closed their eyes and said a prayer before the meal.
It was so nice being a part of this simple heartwarming celebration. It brings me back to the memories of childhood where we celebrated our birthdays with much anticipation. Unlike now, wherein we dread the coming of old age every birthday year. It’s also nice to see the values education that the school espouses in action. From greeting the birthday celebrant personally, all the way to saying a prayer before every meal. Mental note: I should do this at home also. I was so humbled by the kindness and grace of the children. So when Baby Bear came home from school with all her gifts from her friends, I made her write a thank you note for all the gifts she received. It was also good practice for her as by the nth card, she was already spelling all the thank you notes by herself without copying from my thank you post-it template for her to follow.
Moments like these makes us wish we were kids again and moments like these makes parenthood so emotionally fulfilling – seeing your kids happy and getting a glimpse of how they will be in the future. To my darling Baby Bear, I’m excited to celebrate your real birthday this summer. Thank you for teaching me to look forward to each birthday year as a celebration of living in-the-moment filled with happiness and a wonderful prospect of how turning a year older should be a joyous anticipation of what life has to bring. From now on, I do look forward to growing older, growing wiser and making more memories with my family. Happy Summer Birthday to all of us! 🙂
OCMom alert! This OCMom just couldn’t stand the mess in her kids’ room anymore. With a toddler and a baby now sharing a common room in a condominium, there was suddenly no space for anything.
Project CAMILLE is a shelf that was built for a mom who wanted to copy the Montessori way of doing activities. When you visit the Montessori classrooms, all the activities are placed inside the shelves. You will not see anything on their work table or work areas. A child goes to a shelf and picks up the tray or bin of her chosen activity and brings it to his/her work area. I think this is a very ingenious concept. First, it teaches the kids early on how to make decisions. Second, it gives them the independence and free will to do what they want to do. At the same time, it teaches them to get their own stuff and return it in the proper place afterwards. Lastly, having a clean table gives you a sense of focus. You are not distracted by anything except for the activity that you have chosen. I sure could adopt that principle given the very messy office desk that I have. (mental note: clear out office desk) 🙂
Here are pictures of Project CAMILLE. Disclaimer: The shelves were still a bit messy as the toys on top of the shelf haven’t been segregated yet. If there were more space in the condominium, it would’ve been nice to add more shelves and to distribute the activities across the shelves to highlight the activities more. Currently, the activities are grouped into similarity due to the lack of space. Also, all shelves are adjustable to accommodate the height of the different bins.
Another project finished! aKids’Life should be easy and enjoyable, enriching and emotionally fulfilling. They live in times where everything is so fast. There are so many new toys these days that we didn’t have when we were growing up. There is so much new information that comes in heaps! Kids of today have so much more to learn vs. during our time when all our focus was just on playing and sleeping. The Camille shelves is an example of a small, insignificant detail that we might not see as very important. To us, they are just mere shelves but in the bigger picture they somehow facilitate a faster processing of learning and development helping kids of today to become more empowered and focused in this very cluttered-information-overload world that they live in. And to us OCMoms, the shelves are just for our sanity! 😉
To view other aKids’Life project, check out the following links:
I introduced Baby Bear in this blog 3 years ago, and now it’s Gummy Bear’s turn!
Time truly flies! I was just blogging about the pregnancy and now he is a full month old!!!
Feeling so sentimental… so I had to take a trip down memory lane by also looking at Baby Bears’ pics. You can also view her pics here. I thought I was complete before when I met Baby Bear and never thought I could love another little human being. Now, my heart overflows with love for my whole family. It brings a whole new meaning to the line “you complete me!”. I can’t wait to share more milestones and adventures now that we are a family of 4 plus 1 dog! 🙂 I feel so blessed. Thank you Lord for all your blessings! Have a great year y’all! Let’s all have a wonderful 2015! 🙂
I first introduced Baby Bear in this blog with this entry, while I was also introducing my alter ego as a StartUp Mom. Now, I’m in the same cycle again in my life as I am happy to announce that Baby Bear will become a big sister soon… as in very soon! 🙂
We are expecting Gummy Bear this December!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂 We purposely held off in announcing anything with everyone even family and friends because of what happened to us last year. We lost our little tomato that time and we were so heartbroken. It took me awhile to prepare myself to have another baby again. I thought I would actually be a paranoid pregnant woman this time around with what happened but surprisingly I am a bit chillax with this one. Happy to say that this pregnancy has also been smooth sailing. With Baby Bear, I was even hospitalized twice due to excessive all-day morning sickness for the first 4 months. I lost a lot of weight back then and even had subchorionic hemorrhage.
I truly believe that all babies come from God and God didn’t forsake me during my bad year last year. He even gave me a baby boy just to sweeten the deal. 🙂 I am praying for a healthy and happy baby. He has given me a lot of happiness and love with Baby Bear and I can’t wait to experience the joy Gummy Bear will surely bring to our family.
I love Christmases and we can’t wait to meet our December baby. Christmas will surely come early this year and be doubly joyful for our family as we await the arrival of our little Gummy Bear. Thank you God for happy miracles and blessings. For happiness, is anyone, and anything, at all, that’s loved, by you! We love you so much already, Gummy Bear. Can’t wait to meet you! 🙂